Break Free From Money Blocks: (how to make more without losing your soul)
Money doesn’t lie—it tells the story of your beliefs. If your wallet’s thin, it’s not because you’re not working hard enough; it’s because you’re clinging to the wrong stories.
Many people find themselves trapped in a cycle of self-doubt and fear—especially when it comes to success and self-worth. As long as they cling to the same beliefs and habits, they hit the same walls time and again.
The secret lies not in working harder or employing new strategies but in a profound inner journey.
By becoming aware, letting go of what no longer serves you, and making bold choices that prove you’re done playing small, you start to see money as a tool for creative expression—not a source of stress. And when you do that, the flow of money follows naturally.
We are evolving beings. For those on a growth path, there’s a tension between two selves—the old and the new.
The Cost of Staying Stuck
The old self clings to survival and comfort, while the new self pushes for growth and creativity.
But the real danger comes from staying the same while life moves on without you.
You know the script: “There’s never enough.” “I’m not cut out for success.” “Risk is dangerous.” These limiting thoughts keep you small, creating a loop where real transformation feels out of reach.
Staying stuck doesn’t just hold you back—it drains your life force. It’s like suffocating in a room with no windows. You want more, but every time you try to break out, you slam into the same walls.
It touches everything. Your work, your relationships, your self-esteem. It stifles your creativity, turning you reactive rather than proactive.
Worst of all, it keeps you waiting for life to change, and you might not even be aware of it.
Embrace Your New Self
On the other side of this loop is your new self—the version of you that thrives in abundance, possibility, and freedom. The new self doesn’t pretend fear doesn’t exist; it just doesn’t let fear take the wheel.
Imagine waking each day with purpose, aligned with your deepest desires. You step into your day not as a prisoner of your fears but as a sovereign creator of your reality. Here, money flows from your creativity instead of feeling like a constraint. You start seeing opportunities where others see obstacles, making empowered decisions that reflect your true essence.
You feel joy and excitement from taking risks and stepping outside your comfort zone. With each courageous leap, you not only challenge your boundaries but inspire others to do the same.
Neo’s Leap of Faith (and mine)
Consider Neo from The Matrix. Initially, he is bound by doubt and limitation.
He doesn’t believe he’s “The One.” He resists it at every turn, convinced that he’s just another guy in the system, powerless to make a real difference.
But then he stands at his edge, literally and metaphorically. When Morpheus tells him he has to leap from one building to another, Neo hesitates. His old self whispers, “This is impossible. You’ll fail.” But there’s something inside him—a curiosity, a pull—that makes him step forward anyway.
Like Neo, we all hesitate at the edge. But the leap isn’t about certainty—it’s about reaching the point where staying the same is no longer an option.
We all have that moment—whether it’s leaving a soul-sucking job, starting a risky project, or investing in ourselves when it feels impossible. Like Neo, it’s not about knowing you’ll succeed; it’s about taking the step because you can’t afford to stay the same.
Neo's leap is when he lets go of his old beliefs and trusts something greater. He crosses the edge. Even though he falls the first time, the shift has already begun.
Eventually, Neo realizes that he can bend the world to his will. Not because he’s forcing it, but because he’s aligned with his deeper— new self. He’s no longer trapped by fear or doubt. He’s in his power.
My dark night of the soul was filled with these doubts. The inner journey saved me. It helped me see through the veil of illusions. I did the inner work to cut through it. And I tell you, it's not a metaphor. I had not chosen the circumstances into which I was born. However, I decided to rewrite my programming. I worked on meta-skills or awareness, authenticity, and high agency, visualizing and embodying my new self, and one day, the phone rang. Somebody had heard of me from a peer, and he wanted to take me aboard a consulting firm, helping transform organizations into more human-centric organizations.
Was that my edge? No, I jumped well earlier. I was falling, and somebody saw me from the other side.
Another anecdote comes to mind. I remember staring at the number on my bank account, knowing I was about to spend 80% of it on a coaching program. It felt like standing on a cliff, but I knew I’d stay trapped in the same cycle if I didn't leap.
The Acceptance Shift
This is your edge—the place where transformation begins.
How do you leap from your old self to your new self? That’s where the Acceptance Shift comes into play. It’s a process that begins with acknowledging your current beliefs.
- Acknowledge: Identify your limiting beliefs. What’s truly holding you back?
Example: “I’m afraid I’ll never have enough money.” - Observe: Pay attention to the moments when you hold back from investing in yourself or asking for what you’re worth—those are the echoes of your old stories. Where do they come from?
Example: “My fear of money stems from a childhood of scarcity.” - Understand: Dig deeper to uncover what these beliefs are protecting.
Example: “I realize my fear protects me from failure but also keeps me from success.” - Let Go: Stop justifying why you ‘can’t afford it’—whether that’s time, money, or energy. Decide that abundance is your baseline and act accordingly.
Example: “I trust that abundance is possible and within my reach.”
This is your edge. The Acceptance Shift is your tool for crossing it.
Rewrite the script
Here is how to cross the edge from limits to abundance and make money while staying true to yourself:
- Stop saying money is scarce—it’s a story you keep telling yourself because it feels safe. Start looking at money as fuel for your ambitions.
- Stop thinking success is for other people. Make it your mission to prove yourself wrong.
| Old Self | New Self |
|---|---|
| Money is scarce: This belief creates a mindset of fear-driven decisions that stifle growth. | Money is abundant: Embrace the belief that wealth and opportunities are always within reach. |
| Success is for others: Thinking that greatness is only for the fortunate few is the old self-speaking. | Success is a skill: Understand that success is learned and mastered, not reserved for the lucky. |
| I’m not enough: Self-doubt and imposter syndrome arise from believing you lack what it takes. | I am enough: Your worth is inherent; validation is no longer needed. |
| Risk is dangerous: Your comfort zone may feel safe, but it’s also suffocating. | Growth comes from risk: Embrace discomfort as the pathway to transformation. |
| Life happens to me: Blaming circumstances keeps you feeling powerless. | Life happens through me: Become an active participant in your life, co-creating with the universe. |
Step Into Your New Self
The beliefs that keep you ‘safe’ are the same ones that sabotage your potential.
If you’re ready to break out, here’s how you step into your new self.
- Embrace the Acceptance Shift and summon the courage to step across the edge. Yes, it’s daunting. Yes, it’s uncomfortable. But on the other side lies the life you’re meant to live. You’re standing at the edge— and there’s no one there to push you. Jump, or stay where you are and watch your potential rot. The choice is yours, but the clock’s ticking.
- If you’re tired of watching life happen to you, it’s time to make life happen through you. Upgrade your Inner Journey subscription to cut through the noise, break free from your limits, and design a life of prosperity and impact.
You’ve got two choices—stay comfortable or step into your potential. You can’t do both.
The edge is here—jump, and claim the life waiting for you.
